for future reference boys:
three minutes after you've just said to a woman, "i really really like you. i think you're absolutely fantastic. you're so very unique and funny... blah blah blah. i'm so glad i met you..."
don't call her a "bitch". even if you're just kidding. it isn't ever funny. especially when you work in a dv shelter. and it sure as hell isn't a term of endearment.
ok. i'm over it.